Dreams That Empowers With Confidence and Strength

Daniel is wrapped up in self-defeat

Daniel continues to have problems finding the confidence to make something of himself in his chosen career in the creative arts. He thinks of himself as a failure.

He felt defeated and purposeless. He felt unloved, alone and just about ready to give up, when his second dream came along to help make him feel empowered.

Listen to all six episodes by listening to the podcast below:

Part 1: Daniel is given a vivid dream image to help rehearse his skills and find his inner resources to be successful.


Part 2: Daniel receives a boost to his confidence and shows that he can be lovable just at the time he is feeling defeated. The same dream rescues him when he is at a new low three years later.

Daniel wants it all and has to split himself in two

Part 3: Daniel is caught between wanting an easy life and being fulfilled as a lovable person. His third dream shows that he can have both, without having to split himself in two pieces. Once again the same dream bails him out some 34 months later when he is faced with a seemingly impossible choice.

Part 4: Daniel's fourth dream shows him how easy it is to get a good high paying job without the grind. He also learns that he doesn't have to buy love and loyalty in order to succeed.

Daniel pretends that outer image is all that matters

Part 5: Daniel learns an important lesson from his fifth dream - that his concern with his outer image is preventing him from finding happiness and love. He learns how to tune into what is really important, and re-learns the same lesson when he gets caught with a similar problem years later.

Daniel finally gets to have the life and love he deserves

Part 6: The sixth dream in this series helped Daniel appreciate that he had the world at his feet and could shape his life to fulfill his wishes to have a loving family and a meaningful career. But he didn't have to throw out his ugly past to do so. Potent dream images helped Daniel focus on his future and came back to remind him several months later -that he still had his life canvas to paint, if he just picked up the brush!

Copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.

Who is the Terrorist in Your life?

Freda the Mother is Scared
The Dream:The men with beards were after her again. Those men were chasing her, brandishing long knives. They were running after Freda and her children. Freda was desperate to protect her children from this bloodthirsty group. She is scared that she is not going to be able to safeguard her children. Powerless against these violent men Freda feels like a bad and inadequate parent.

Shame and Fear Keep The Dream A Secret
Freda had this dream repeatedly for a long period of time. She always woke up scared. She never told anyone about it. It was kind of shameful that she was having nightmares about being a bad parent.

The Dream Images Throw Light on Freda's Fears
Then Freda came to one of my dream workshops. She told me the dream and drew the scary images on a whiteboard. The sketches showed huge sword like knives with large wide sharp blades used to behead people in mythology and ancient history. The men's beards gave them an aura of wisdom but the fierce righteousness and authority of religious elders, where Freda had lived as a child.

Freda the Daughter is Slashed by her Mother's Sharp Tongue
All through Freda's life her mother had criticized her. She continued to criticize Freda's way of bringing up her children, making Freda feel bad. Her mother's words always cut her with their sharpness, like the knives in her dream. Freda began to speak of herself in equally harsh and critical ways. She saw little to love in herself.

The Dream Shows Freda Her Dilemma
Threats of attack in the dream represented the assault that Freda felt from her mother's tongue, breaking down her self-esteem and making her feel inadequate. But now Freda has children of her of her own, and she doesn't want them to have the same experience. She wants to get them away from the cruel demeaning voice of her mother, symbolized by the elderly vicious men in the dream.

The men appeared in her dream to show her that she had taken in her mother's mean tone and made it her own, by always putting herself down.

Standing Up To The Ogre
In her dream Freda never actually got attacked and nor did her children. The message here is that no matter how powerful the men appear to be, she is safe and can stand up to them. By protecting her children in the dream, she was also protecting the part of her that now needed to stand up to the ogre of a mother in real life and the one that lived inside Freda.

Turning the Power Into a Positive Force
Freda had allowed all her power to be invested in her critical voice, that she adopted from her mother, making her feel no good. Her dream came to tell her that she could use that power differently, to make herself feel good, as a human being, a woman, a wife and a daughter.

The Outcome
A year later I bumped into Freda at a coffee shop. She came over to hug me and thanked me profusely for helping her figure out what her dream meant. She said she never had that dream again, and had taken steps to build firmer boundaries with her mother. She felt good about herself and was more in charge of her life. Her inner voice was so much more loving.

Copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.